Collaborative Care for OB-GYNs & Pelvic Floor PTs | Body Compass

For OB-GYNs & Pelvic Floor Physical Therapists

Collaborative care for holistic sexual and pelvic healing.

A patient flinches at a touch that shouldn’t hurt anymore. Mentions, almost in passing, something that happened years ago — or never mentions it, but their body answers for them: bracing on the table, going somewhere else during the exam, apologizing for a reaction they can’t explain. Pain resolves and the avoidance doesn’t. You read the whole patient, not just the presenting symptom — and that read deserves somewhere real to go.

What you're hearing, when you're hearing this

It rarely arrives as a clear disclosure.

More often it’s scattered across a few visits, in language patients use when they don’t yet have better words:

“I don’t know why, I just tense up” — with no clear physical cause left to treat
“It’s been months” or “it’s been years” since they’ve had sex, since symptoms started — and you’re starting to suspect it’s more than the physical piece
A trauma history surfaces on an intake form — sometimes a sexual assault, sometimes a difficult or traumatic birth — and it’s clear it’s still living in the body somewhere
A passing mention of an old relationship, or a period of their life they gloss over quickly
Bracing, going quiet, or going somewhere else mentally during an exam, in a way that feels disproportionate to the physical sensation
Repeated visits for the same unresolved symptom after multiple clean workups

What this work actually is

What Sexological Bodywork® does.

I’m a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® and trauma-informed somatic practitioner. My work sits alongside the clinical, in the space where a patient is medically clear but still hasn’t rebuilt any felt trust in their own arousal, pleasure, or desire.

Where pelvic floor PT retrains tissue and OB-GYN care addresses the medical picture, this work addresses the nervous system’s relationship to sensation itself — helping a body that has organized around guarding, bracing, or absence slowly learn that it’s safe to feel something other than pain.

I’m not a medical provider, a therapist, or a counselor. I don’t diagnose or treat. This work runs alongside your care, in close communication with it.

People come in for pain, low desire, and “dysfunction.” They stay because their body starts to feel like home again.

How referral works

What partnership looks like.

This is a triadic model — you, your patient, and this work each holding a distinct role, in direct communication where useful.

You hold the medical picture. Diagnosis, treatment, clearance, and any contraindications stay entirely in your hands.

I hold the somatic and erotic integration. Helping the nervous system update once the body’s history has been honored — at a pace the client leads.

Referral is a simple conversation. A short consultation call exists for exactly this — for you to understand the modality, ask questions, and decide if it’s the right fit before you ever bring it to a patient.

What becomes possible

What this has looked like, in practice.

What was clinically true	What was still happening	What this work addressed
Years of consistent pelvic floor PT progress, full functional clearance	Still unable to tolerate partnered touch without bracing or shutting down	Rebuilding nervous system safety around touch itself, separate from mechanics
Medically cleared post-treatment for a gynecologic condition	Relating to their own anatomy as a site of damage rather than sensation	Restoring a felt sense of those parts of the body as their own again
Significant talk therapy around a known sexual trauma history	Could describe the history but not feel anything shift in the body	Locating where that history still lived physically, and moving it — not just narrating it
No identifiable physical cause after repeated workups for pelvic pain	Pain persisted, and the patient began to internalize it as their own failure	Reframing the pain as adaptive nervous system response rather than personal brokenness, opening room for it to soften
Successfully completed dilator protocol or desensitization work	Function returned, but desire and pleasure hadn’t — sex felt mechanical or dutiful	Rebuilding an erotic relationship to the body, not just a functional one

Who you'd be referring to

Nicole Siegel, CSB®.

I’m a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® and trauma-informed somatic practitioner, and the creator of the Body Compass Method™. I’ve spent years working specifically at the intersection of medical history, sexual trauma, and embodied pleasure — with clients navigating pelvic pain, low desire, and bodies that learned to brace long before either of us met them.

I work in close communication with referring providers, within clearly held scope, and I’m always open to a conversation before a referral is ever made — so you know exactly what your patient is walking into.

Free resource

A Provider's Guide to Sexological Bodywork.

A printable PDF written specifically for referring providers — covering what this work is, what it isn’t, ethics, referral criteria, and an FAQ for the conversations you’ll likely have with patients.

Printable PDF · Overview + Ethics · Referral Criteria

When a referral might make sense

Consider this work when patients describe:

Avoidance of touch or intimacy that holds steady even as physical symptoms improve
A sense that their body feels unfamiliar, or like a stranger, following diagnosis or treatment
Anxiety, numbness, or dissociation specifically around arousal or pleasure, separate from pain itself
Grief, shame, or anger about their body that talk therapy and physical therapy haven’t moved
A history of sexual trauma — named, or suspected — shaping how their body holds and responds
A desire to feel pleasure again, not just the absence of pain

If you’re a patient and found this page — you’re in the right neighborhood, just not quite the right room. This page was written for your providers. If you’re looking for somewhere to start yourself, this is a gentler place to land:

A conversation, provider to provider

30 minutes to see if this is the right fit for your patient.

If you’re curious whether this modality could support a patient’s goals around intimacy, embodiment, or sexual healing, I offer a free consultation to walk through how it works, where it fits, and whether a referral makes sense.